"Parents actuellement absents"[Presently-Absent, Parents]

"When will us as not adults, but parents, realize that our children watch every single thing that we do. Seriously, every little thing. From witnessing daddy give mommy that promise ring, and "unbeknownst" to the children it was a cover up for his little "slip up" with the girl that he claimed just two years ago to have never spoken to or seen again. "Mommy, why is daddy packing a bag and saying things like that" But she's battling over too many tears to even to respond back! It's like we try to protect our kids from seeing and hearing the foolishness, but then you're slapped across the face with reality when you're asked, but "daddy don't I have two daddies now" News hitting you so hard your only response being "Wow!" Then you start thinking like how in the hell did I not know about this shit?! Nowadays it's two sides to the game. The males aren't the only ones "needing to take fault", ya know.. acknowledge blame?! We both as adults, must face the fact that our children need us to form that picture perfect frame. Whether together or not, the respect is needed.. no matter how bad things get heated. You're either all in or doing like the infamous Mr.Jackson, and just beating it. Ya know, hitting the door! Families just aren't the same nomore. Baby showers are supposed to be accompanied by other beautiful memories such as being graced with a wedding ring. When nowadays it's just more baby showers than weddings, if anything. It just doesn't seem to be apparent to some adults that we have to explain this to our children, showing them the right way the best way that we can; but that can only be done when you're willing to be a parent and not absent.

Stephanie Montgomery

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